Hello, men!

Handsome bottom with bright smile & sense of humor seeks San-Diego-area Top / Dad to pleasure. I'm particularly hoping for someone into *safe*, passionate vanilla sex but am open to quite a bit more.

I'm 6'2”, 185#, 42, muscular, furry-chested & a good kisser! I'm a non-smoker, non-drugger, & non-drinker. I've been HIV+ since the early 80s and cannot bareback.

A good match will be male, honest, height/weight proportional & not use drugs. Fun desirables include uncut, handsome salt & pepper hair, male-pattern baldness, yummy moustaches & woofy Italians! Non-smoker is a plus.

I spent the 80s exclusively on bottom and the last 15 years on Top. I've always fantasized about having a leather Dad but have never had one yet. I am in a long-term open relationship and also have a dear leatherslave. With this loving family base I am emotionally available and regularly physically available to a Top / Dad should we hit it off. By definition I'm versatile, but in this venue I seek only to service a Top / Dad.

Please drop me a line at "dadsearch" via "officerwes.com" if we might be a good fit -- or if you know somebody else who might be.

Thank you!

 

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Here's what happened after that ad went up:

I'd put it out to the universe. There was a man here in town who both of us felt we connected really well, but he had uncommonly limited time. When I let him know I was looking for a Daddy, he said he was interested and he'd really try to make it work. He also explained he was neither jealous nor possessive, so gave me permission to enjoy the company of other men.

 

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And a year or so later:

Daddy Barry collars his manboy, Officer Wes.

 

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