Officer Wes' BDSM checklist

OFFICER WES'
BDSM CHECKLIST

The checklist below is a way for me to get to know you better. Not all items below are necessarily things that I get into, or would be a requirement on your part.

For each item, you need to provide two answers:

For experience, write YES or NO next to each item to indicate if you have ever DONE that activity.
For willingness, indicate for each item how you feel about DOING that activity by rating it on a scale of NO or 0 to 5.

"?" means you don't understand what the item is attempting to describe.
NO means you will NOT do that item under any circumstances (a hard limit).
0 (zero) indicates you have utterly no desire to do that activity and don't like doing it (in fact, may loath it) and would ordinarily object to doing it, but you would permit Officer Wes to do it if it he really wanted it (sometimes called a "soft limit").
1 means you don't want to do or like to do this activity, but wouldn't object if it was asked of you.
2 means you are willing to do this activity, but it has no special appeal for you.
3 means you usually like doing this activity, at least on an irregular/ occasional basis.
4 means you like doing this activity, and would like to experience it on a regular basis.
5 means the activity is a wild turn-on for you, and you would like it as often as possible.

Note any additional information or nuances which might be important for me to know in the margin to the right. For example, under "uniforms" you might have a different fetish for military versus police.

Activity	Experience (yes/no)	Willingness (NO or 0-5)	Notes
· Abrasion
· Anal sex (see "fucking butt")
· Animal roles (puppy, pony, etc.)
· Arm & leg sleeves (armbinders)
· Auctioned for charity
· Ball stretchers /ball stretching
· Ball torture
· Bathroom use control
· Beating (soft)
· Beating (hard)
· Being bitten
· Bestiality
· Blindfolds
· Blowjobs (see "Sucking dick")
· Body worship
· Bondage (light)
· Bondage (heavy)
· Bondage (while sleeping)
· Bondage (multi-day)
· Bondage (public, under clothing)
· Boot worship
· Branding If there is a required branding, describe any objection to this procedure. Also, describe any current brandings.
· Breath control
· Buttplugs (small)
· Buttplugs (large)
· Buttplug (public, clothed)
· Cages (locked inside of)
· Caning
· Castration fantasy
· Catheterization
· Cattle prod
· Cells (locked inside of)
· Chains
· Chastity
· Chastity belts
· Chauffeuring
· Choking
· Chores (domestic service)
· Clothespins
· Clothing restrictions (having clothes chosen for you)
· Cock rings/straps
· Cock torture
· Cock worship
· Collars (worn in private)
· Collars (worn in public)
· Cowboys
· Cuttings
· Dildos
· Domestic service
· Electricity (TENS-based)
· Electricity (violet wand)
· Enemas (for cleansing)
· Enemas (retention/punishment)
· Examinations (physical)
· Exercise (forced/required)
· Exhibitionism (friends)
· Exhibitionism (strangers)
· Eye contact restrictions
· Fire play
· Fisting
· Flat-top or other haircuts (specify)
· Flogging
· Following orders
· Food (having it chosen for you)
· Foot worship
· Forced masturbation
· Forced nudity (private)
· Forced nudity (around others)
· Forced servitude
· Fucking butt (fucking)
· Fucking butt (getting fucked)
· Gags (cloth)
· Gags (horse-style mouth bit)
· Gags (inflatable)
· Gags (phallic)
· Gags (rubber)
· Gags (tape)
· Gas masks
· Gates of Hell
· Given away to another Top (temporarily)
· Given away to another Top (permanently)
· Glove play (crotch)
· Glove play (mouth)
· Golden showers (see water sports)
· Group scenes (play parties)
· Hand jobs (giving)
· Hand jobs (receiving)
· Handcuffs (leather)
· Handcuffs (metal)
· Harnesses (leather)
· Harnesses (rope)
· Hoods
· Housework (doing)
· Humiliation (private)
· Humiliation (public)
· Ice cubes
· Immobilization
· Initiation rites
· Interrogations
· Kidnapping
· Kneeling
· Knife play
· Latex clothing
· Leather clothing
· Leather restraints
· Manacles & irons
· Marks / bruises (temporary / just for a few hours)
· Marks / bruises (that might last more than a few hours)
· Massage (giving)
· Massage (receiving)
· Medical scenes
· Military scenes (Army, Air Force, Navy, Marines) (specify)
· Modeling for erotic photos
· Motorcycles
· Mummification
· Nipple clamps
· Nipple rings (piercings)
· Nipple play/"torture"
· Nipple weights
· Outdoor scenes
· Outdoor sex
· Pain (mild)
· Pain (severe)
· Phone sex
· Piercing (temporary)
· Piercing (permanent) If there is a required piercing, describe any objections to this procedure. Also, describe any current piercings.
· Prison scenes
· Punishment scene
· Rape fantasy
· Rape (gang-style) fantasy
· Religious scenes
· Restrictive rules on behavior
· Riding crops
· Rimming (oral/anal contact)
· Rituals
· Rubber (neoprene) clothing -- see also latex
· Saline injections in balls
· Scarification
· Scat (brown showers)
· Scent worship (man musk & man smell in armpits for example)
· Scratching - getting
· Sensory deprivation
· Service / serving
· Serving as art
· Serving as a housekeeper
· Serving as a waiter
· Serving other Tops (supervised)
· Serving other Tops (unsupervised)
· Sex
· Sexual deprivation / chastity (short term)
· Sexual deprivation / chastity (long term)
· Shaving (body hair)
· Shaving (head hair)
· Skinny-dipping
· Sleep deprivation
· Sleepsacks
· Sounds (metal urethral rods)
· Spandex clothing
· Spanking
· Spanking (over-the-knee)
· Speech restrictions (when, what)
· Speculums (anal)
· Spitting
· Spreader bars
· Standing in corner
· Stocks
· Straight jackets
· Strapping (full body beating)
· Sucking dick (blowing)
· Sucking dick (getting blown)
· Suspension (upright)
· Suspension (horizontal)
· Suspension (inverted)
· Swallowing cum If yes, describe circumstance, frequency, and current preference.
· Swallowing urine (see "water sports")
· Tattooing
· Teasing
· Thumbcuffs (metal)
· Tickling
· Tit clamps (see nipples)
· Tongue bath / tongue worship
· Trucks / sleeper cabs
· Uniforms (specify)
· Verbal humiliation
· Violet wand (electrical device)
· Voyeurism (watching others)
· Video (watching others)
· Video (recordings of you)
· Water sports (external)
· Water sports (internal / swallowing piss)
· Wax (hot, dripping)
· Wearing symbolic jewelry
· Whipping
· Wooden paddles
· Wrestling

Are there any turn-offs or turn-ons not listed above? If so, describe.
Do you own any sex toys, bondage equipment, or other erotica? If so, describe.
What has been your most intense scene involving SM or B&D? Describe.

My thanks to the late Tammad Rimilia, creator of his Submissive BDSM Play Partner Check List. It was the source document for this version, which I modified for my interests. I found Tammad's version in the Links section of the defunct Cuffs.com under "Forms, Checklists and Contracts."